Packing for the hospital-from the photo album

Deborah Lavinsky at 42 weeks, happy, excited, nervous–gonna’ finally have my baby– a 9lbs 4oz breech baby! I had a surprise caesarian section with no physical or psychological preparation, kind of like getting on a runaway train with no brakes. When this photo was taken I still had no idea she was breech but I had my suspicions. We weren’t really encouraged to exercise back then (1985) so I embraced eating for two and gained 50 pounds– I could have really used Pilates to fix the back pain that plagued my second pregnancy (also over 40 weeks and a c-section). The good news is both pregnancies and deliveries were comparatively easy, my babies were healthy and now are thriving adults. My daughter (pictured pre-birth above) is now expecting her second child–the Circle of Life!

Pregnancy is an exciting and transformative time in women’s lives. Hormones create many changes including fatigue, nausea, mood shifts, backaches and sleep disruptions. Daily activities like exercise need to adapt to the growing baby yet maintain the health and well-being of the mom. I am frequently asked about whether its safe to start or continue doing Pilates during pregnancy as well as when it’s safe to begin exercise after the baby’s delivery.

First, always consult with your physician- s/he knows you and your medical history best. If you are given the green light, then the next step is to choose your exercise wisely. Yes, you can do Pilates while pregnant, but with some significant differences which our studio is well-versed in. Although pre-pregnancy you may have been the “Planking Queen” at your last Pilates studio, did you know that you could be at risk of Diastasis Recti (abdominal separation)? Many of your activities of daily living—bending over to pick up groceries, twisting to put your other children in their car seats or doing planks and traditional crunches can cause this separation. Diastasis Recti (DR) causes back pain, umbilical hernias, and loss of functional strength in the abdominal core. All of your hard work pre-pregnancy will be a distant memory. If your core feels “mushy” postpartum despite your attempts to firm it up, its time to do a “Rec” Check. Crunches and planks will just make it worse. DR is not going to kill you or make you sick. If left unresolved, it could lead to chronic back pain and a functionally weak core. I have seen several post-menopausal women with this condition who didn’t realize they had DR but knew that something wasn’t quite right with their abdominal muscles. As much as they tried to contract them in Pilates mat classes, nothing would happen for them. They also were never able to get their stomachs flat enough after having children to get back into their pre-pregnancy weight pants. One quick way to see if Diastasis Recti could be the issue is to lie on your back and come up in forward flexion or a “crunch”. If you see a vertical ridge or “doming” running along your abdominal midline, there’s a pretty good chance it’s DR. It can be repaired with specific exercises, patience and consistency. Your body will end up better than ever as a result!

To prevent DR, there are specific pelvic floor conditioning exercises and adapted core conditioning exercises designed for pregnant women to help support the growing baby, teach proper movement, maintain functional core strength and stabilize posture. We have an ongoing program at BellaBody Pilates for working with pre- and post-natal women. If you are postpartum and already have DR, these exercises will help you restore your core function. A simple test can be performed to see if you have DR and if you are a candidate for DR Restoration.

Here is a video testimonial from a happy client:  Healing Diastasis Recti

For more information or to schedule your “Rec” Check, call Deborah Lavinsky, PMA®-CPT at 602-318-5068 or email at

Please follow these links to my YouTube channel to learn these simple, basic exercises to help prevent Diastasis Recti.

Pre and Post Natal Pilates Exercise Week 1 “Hug the Baby”.

Pre- and Post-Natal Pilates Exercise Week 2 “Lateral Thoracic Breathing”

Pre- and Post-Natal Exercise Week 3 “Gentle Monkey Hanging”

Pre- and Post-Natal Pilates Exercise Week 4 “Supported Squatting”

Pre- and Post-Natal Pilates Exercise Week 5 “Safe Standing Back and Core”

Pre-and Post Natal Pilates Week 6 “Steps to take to avoid it before pregnancy”

Pre- and Post-Natal Pilates Week 7 “I’m pregnant and I have Diastasis Recti-Now what happens?”

Pre-and Post Natal Exercises Week 8 “Body Patience after Delivery”

Healed Diastasis Recti Testimonial